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Title:Samskost kot nov življenjski slog
Authors:ID Kosi, Eva (Author)
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PID: 20.500.12556/dkum/2a6f49d0-f3e1-4ea3-8a0b-9d25a2a6c08a
 
Language:Slovenian
Work type:Master's thesis/paper
Typology:2.09 - Master's Thesis
Organization:FF - Faculty of Arts
Abstract:Magistrsko delo temelji na proučevanju samskosti kot novega življenjskega sloga v sodobni družbi. Ker samski ljudje v družbi veljajo za deviantne in so deležni diskriminacije, smo s kvalitativno metodo, konkretneje z uporabo polstrukturiranih intervjujev, izvedli raziskavo, da bi proučili življenja samskih oseb in njihova subjektivna doživljanja samskosti. Da bi bolje razumeli njihovo (ne)namerno samskost, smo jih povprašali o izkušnjah iz prejšnjih zvez, ki pomembno vplivajo na posameznikove nadaljnje odločitve o vstopanju v partnerska razmerja. Pozitivne izkušnje, ki so jih navedli, so bile: učenje iz izkušenj, pripadnost ter fizična, emocionalna in mentalna bližina najboljšega prijatelja in sobivalca (partnerja), negativne pa: nezaupanje, neprijetne prekinitve partnerskih razmerij, utesnjevanje, monotonost, razočaranje, obžalovanje nekaterih dejanj in izkoriščanje s partnerjeve strani. Njihovi razlogi za samskost so naslednji: ni potencialnega partnerja, svoboda, bolezen, strah pred čustveno bolečino, nezaupanje in pretekla razočaranja. Samskosti v večini ne povezujejo z nesrečnim življenjem, kvečjemu odsotnost partnerja pojmujejo kot nek primanjkljaj v življenju. V večji meri se intervjuvani ne počutijo osamljene, saj imajo veliko dejavnosti in stikov z drugimi, predvsem s prijatelji in družinskimi člani (starši, sorojenci in otroki), na katere se po potrebi lahko tudi obrnejo po pomoč. Med pozitivne posledice samskosti štejejo večjo svobodo, možnost posvečanja drugim stvarem, brezskrbnost, lagodnost v bivališču (ni se potrebno toliko urejati in skrbeti za bonton), manj neprijetnosti/konfliktov/težav in občutek poželjenosti s strani drugih; kot negativne posledice pa navajajo potrebo po drugi osebi, osamljenost ter potrebo po moškem zaradi težkih fizičnih opravil, zaščite pred okolico, večje finanče varnosti in spolnih odnosov. Vsi so imeli in nekateri še imajo željo po partnerski zvezi in otrocih, vendar pa se te želje, sodeč po naši raziskavi, z leti spreminjajo. Polovica intervjuvancev (starejši) ne namerava ponovno vstopiti v partnersko razmerje, druga polovica (mlajši) pa svojo samskost vidijo kot prehodno obdobje. Še vedno je opazen vpliv tradicionalne ideologije, saj družino kot institucijo visoko vrednotijo. Pritiskov in diskriminacije pa ne opazijo oziroma ne doživljajo kot takšne. Večina pripadnikov družbe namreč tradicionalno ideologijo ponotranji, zaradi česar (normativnih) pritiskov ne morejo ozavestiti, tudi če se nanašajo na njih same.
Keywords:Samskost, življenjski slog, osamljenost, tradicionalna ideologija, diskriminacija
Place of publishing:Maribor
Publisher:[E. Kosi]
Year of publishing:2019
PID:20.500.12556/DKUM-73675 New window
UDC:316.366 -058.832(043.2)
COBISS.SI-ID:24790024 New window
NUK URN:URN:SI:UM:DK:0SBDCGB5
Publication date in DKUM:09.10.2019
Views:1728
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KOSI, Eva, 2019, Samskost kot nov življenjski slog [online]. Master’s thesis. Maribor : E. Kosi. [Accessed 18 April 2025]. Retrieved from: https://dk.um.si/IzpisGradiva.php?lang=eng&id=73675
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Language:English
Title:Being single as a new lifestyle
Abstract:This master's thesis studies singleness as a new lifestyle in modern society. Since single people in society are considered to be deviant and are discriminated against, we carried out a survey using a qualitative method, and more specifically, used semi-structured interviews to study the lives of single people and their subjective experiences of singleness. In order to better understand their (un)purposeful choice of staying single, we asked them about their experiences from previous relationships, which have had a significant impact on the individual's further decisions on entering into relationships. The positive experiences they listed were: learning from experience, belonging and physical, emotional and mental closeness of their best friend and roommate (partner). The negative characteristics of relationships they listed were: mistrust, unpleasant break-ups, feeling suffocated, monotony, disappointment, regretting certain actions and being exploited by their partner. Their reasons for staying single are the following: there is no potential partner, freedom, illness, fear of emotional pain, distrust and past disappointments. In most cases, singleness does not correlate with an unhappy life; however, the absence of a partner is seen as a shortcoming. The interviewees do not usually feel lonely, as they engage in a lot of activities and keep in touch with other people, especially friends and family members (parents, siblings and children), who they can also turn to for help if they need it. Among the positive consequences of being single, they list greater freedom, the possibility of devoting their time to other things, being carefree, comfort in their residence (there is no need to be as tidy and care about manners as much), less inconvenience/conflicts/problems and a sense of desire from others; as negative consequences, they list the need for another person, the loneliness and the wish for a man due to difficult physical tasks, not feeling protected from their surroundings, decreased financial security and a lack of sexual relations. All of them had, and some still have a desire for a partnership and children, but these wishes, according to our research, are changing over the years. Half of the interviewees (the elderly) do not intend to re-enter into a relationship, while the other half (younger people) see their singleness as something transitory. The influence of traditional ideology is still noticeable, as they still highly value the family as an institution. However, they are not subjected to pressures or discrimination as such. Most of the members of society internalize traditional ideology, and because of this, they are unable to become aware of these (normative) pressures, even if they relate to themselves.
Keywords:Singleness, lifestyle, loneliness, traditional ideology, discrimination


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